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Clear before contact

The calm, clear way to bring consent culture to close-contact experiences.

Private or group, set the frame before anyone arrives, so everyone knows what they're walking into and what has already been agreed.

Photography
Who can capture, and who can opt out.
Host teamYes
ParticipantsNo
Someone elseNo
Opt out of appearingOn
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The problem

Most consent happens too late.

In the room, under pressure, once a phone is already out. consent.care moves it earlier, to before anyone arrives, where people can actually read, ask, and choose. The frame goes up before the room opens.

How it works

You set it. They agree. Everyone knows.

Built for the people who host. Three steps, and it never feels like paperwork.

1

Set the consent screens

Turn on the screens that matter for your experience and set each one.

ClothingPhotographyTouchPause & stop
2

Participants read and agree

Share one link. People read each screen and agree one at a time, before they arrive.

3

Everyone walks in knowing

No surprises, fewer awkward moments, and a room that stays safer for everyone.

Who hosts

Private one-on-one, or a full room.

However you host, the frame goes up first. consent.care works the same whether it's two people or twenty.

One-on-one

A single participant

Bodywork, coaching, a private session. The expectations stay between the two of you, set and agreed before you meet.

Group

A whole room

A workshop, a circle, a play party. Everyone gets the same link and agrees to the same frame before they arrive.

The consent screens

One screen for each thing that should be clear.

Plain, specific, and set before arrival. Turn on only the ones your experience needs.

Touch

Where's the line?

In scopeHands only
Stop wordRespected
Clothing

Clothed or not?

StateOptional
Changing roomNamed
Pause & stop

Stop means stop.

Stop wordRed
Leave anytimeYes
Identity

Your name, your call.

ShownChosen name
Legal nameHidden
Photography

Who can capture?

Host teamYes
Opt outOn
Aftercare

What happens after?

Check-inYes
Follow-upIf you want
Age boundary

Confirmed, not checked.

Minimum21+
ID storedNo
Expectations

Agree one at a time.

ScopeAgreed
Blanket yesNever
On the record

Every answer is logged.

Each agreement is recorded as part of the experience, so there's a clear record of what everyone agreed to and when. Private to the experience, never a public profile.

Experience logPrivate record
BlueHeronagreed · Photographyjust now
BlueHeronagreed · Touchjust now
Mayaagreed · Pause & stop2 min ago
Ariconfirmed · Age boundary5 min ago
For hosts

Built with the people who hold space.

For anyone who runs a private, high-trust experience and wants the frame clear before anyone arrives. Bodywork and massage, rope and shibari, tantra and connection, kink and play parties, cuddle and contact, workshops and circles.

Share it anywhere

Share your link anywhere.

Create your experience, get one link, and send it wherever your people already are. They read the screens and arrive knowing.

Where your link can go
Use one link in the channels you already use.
What it isn't

What consent.care will never do.

Powerful because it's specific, not because it overpromises.

No public reviews
No ratings or scores
No marketplace
No selling your data
No public shaming
No spam or pressure
Accountability without scorekeeping.
The care half

Consent is the start. Care is the rest.

A good experience does not end when it ends. Name the comedown, the check-in, and the follow-up before anyone arrives, so the soft part can actually happen. Consent sets the frame. Care holds it afterward.

Early access

Set consent before the room opens.

Save your spot and set up your first experience when early access opens.

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